The father does not invest
When you’re pregnant, you want to share your happiness with your sweetheart. (what could be more normal?) But turns a deaf ear to him. FDoes he worry if the future father does not invest in the pregnancy? First and foremost, it is important to put things back on track. It is not because the man does not act as one would like him that he does not feel concerned and that he is disinvested. If, despite everything, you feel that he is not present or that he never accompanies you to the various appointments, you will have to make sure to include him in the pregnancy.
Kedu? In particular, by telling him how the consultation went, what we felt… Then he was offered to accompany us to an ultrasound or to a childbirth preparation session, for example. If he persists in not wanting to come, it is important to discuss it with him because in this hypothesis, we may have a tendency to question his future paternity …
In the end, we don’t demand too much of him and we don’t put pressure on him otherwise, there are chances that he will steer. The fact that he is not very present does not mean that he will be absent after childbirth, that he will not be a good father. Some men do not get involved during pregnancy but change completely as soon as their baby is born. So we talk to him about it, we see how he sees things and we trust him.