Mmetụta na-eme ka ị nwee mmetụta: Martyr's Pose

​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​Experiencing suffering that you are forced to is a bad habit or a manipulative game. If a person does not like what he will need to do, he can play (enter the state) Martyr or Sufferer (Victim pose). Sometimes this stops the one who forces (he is already becoming a Torturer and Aggressor), and if he doesn’t stop, then he will at least be a revenger.

The Martyr and the Sufferer may eventually say that these coercions have beaten off their desire, although in reality they killed the desire themselves, and attributed it to the Tormentor.

If a person does not act out suffering when forced, he simply does what is necessary.

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