ọdịnaya
We all experience times of loneliness differently. Some enjoy freedom and flirt with others. Others do not even think about it and live their solitary lives. However, many painfully perceive the absence of a partner. These feelings can be exacerbated at a holiday that glorifies love, union, family — at the wedding of friends.
Oge okpomọkụ bụ oge anwụ na-acha, oriri na ọṅụṅụ nke osimiri, mmanya na-esi ísì ụtọ na agbamakwụkwọ. Ememe mara mma, ụlọ oriri na ọṅụṅụ nwere nri na-atọ ụtọ na ịgba egwu ruo mgbe ị daa. Anyị na-abụ ndị akaebe nke oge kacha nwee obi ụtọ na nke kacha echefu echefu na ndụ nke ndị lụrụ ọhụrụ ma nwee ike ịnụ ụtọ ha n'ezie. N'otu ọnọdụ: ọ bụrụ na anyị anọghị naanị anyị.
Ma ọ bụghị ya, anyị, n'ezie, nwere ike inwe obi ụtọ maka ndị nwunye na ndị na-alụ nwanyị ọhụrụ, ma ọ bụ eleghi anya na-enweta ihe na-eme. Enwere ndị di na nwunye nwere obi ụtọ n'ebe ọ bụla ị na-ele anya. Ihe niile gbasara ezumike a na-echetara anyị ọnọdụ mwute anyị, ọ dịkwa ka ọ bụ naanị anyị na-enweghị onye mmekọ ruo ọtụtụ kilomita…
Gịnị nwere ike inyere gị aka ka ị ghara ịda mbà n'obi? Otu mgbede na ụlọ mmanya na-achọ njem? Lọghachi na Tinder? Ma gịnị ma ọ bụrụ na ịchọghị mmekọrịta, ma n'otu oge ahụ na-emegbu gị site na mmetụta nke owu ọmụma? Nke a bụ usoro ịlanarị atọ maka ndị na-alụbeghị di n'oge oge agbamakwụkwọ.
1. Tinyegharịa onwe gị: "Ọ dị mma ịnọrọ naanị gị."
You don’t have to be with anyone. If you don’t have that need, but you think you «should» find someone, chances are good that you’ll be in the company of someone who doesn’t care about you, stuck in a relationship that won’t bring warmth.
Being alone has its advantages. You don’t have to consider the other person’s wishes all the time. You are free to follow your dreams and make them come true. This applies to the choice of food, and trips to festivals — yes, anything!
2. Were nzọụkwụ mbụ
Ikekwe agbamakwụkwọ nke ndị enyi ga-agbanwe ụzọ nke echiche gị, ma ị ga-ekpebi na owu ọmụma agwụla gị ma chọọ mmekọrịta. Ọfọn, ọmarịcha! Ikekwe n'akụkụ gị enweelarị onye na-emere gị ebere. Oge eruola ka ọ ga-amaja jụọ ya ka ọ ga-akpa.
If such a person is not around, try new dating formats: sites, “speed dating”. Try to be more open, communicate more with others — in person and on the Internet. You never know where love might be.
3. Gbanwee uche ma mee ihe omume ntụrụndụ kachasị amasị gị
If you have a lot of free time, you can throw yourself into your favorite thing — for example, return to a hobby. Haven’t learned how to play difficult chords on the guitar? Always dreamed of trying diving? Find something that you like that will make you forget about loneliness forever or at least until the next wedding of friends.