Psychology

N'ịbụ ndị na-amụ banyere akụkọ ndụ nke ndị a ma ama, anyị ga-achọpụta na ọ dịghị ihe dị egwu na akụkọ ihe ịga nke ọma ha, na usoro nhazi maka ihe ịga nke ọma dị mfe ma ya mere onye ọ bụla nwere ike ịnweta. Ya mere, ọ bụrụ na ị na-agbaso nrọ gị ma hapụ okwu ndị a "ma" na "kwesịrị", ị nwere ike ịgbanwe ọtụtụ ihe na ndụ.

Steve Jobs Iwu: Soro obi gị

N’icheta otú Steve Jobs si malite, ndị nne na nna ole na ole ga-achọ isetịpụ ya dị ka ihe nlereanya nye ụmụ ha. Onye okike n'ọdịnihu nke ika Apple ama ama kwụsịrị na Reed College mgbe ọ gụsịrị akwụkwọ ọnwa isii. “Ahụghị m isi ihe dị na ya, aghọtaghịkwa m ihe m ga-eji ndụ m mee,” ka ọ kọwara mkpebi ya ọtụtụ afọ ka e mesịrị nye ụmụ akwụkwọ nọ na Mahadum Stanford. "Ekpebiri m ikwere na ihe niile ga-emezu."

He didn’t even remotely know what to do. He knew one thing for sure: he «must follow his heart.» At first, his heart led him to the typical hippie life of the 70s: he slept on the floor of fellow students, collected cans of Coca-Cola and traveled several miles for food in a Hare Krishna temple. At the same time, he enjoyed every minute, because he followed his curiosity and intuition.

Gịnị mere Steve debanyere aha calligraphy ọmụmụ, ya onwe ya aghọtaghị n'oge ahụ, ọ dị nnọọ hụrụ a na-egbuke egbuke akwụkwọ mmado na campus.

Ma mkpebi a ọtụtụ afọ ka e mesịrị gbanwere ụwa

Ọ bụrụ na ọ mụtaghị calligraphy, afọ iri ka nke ahụ gasịrị, kọmpụta Macintosh mbụ agaraghị enwe ụdị ụdị ederede na mkpụrụedemede dị ukwuu. Ikekwe sistemụ arụmọrụ Windows kwa: Ọrụ kwenyere na ụlọ ọrụ Bill Gates na-eṅomi Mac OS n'enweghị ihere.

“What is the secret of Jobs’ creativity? asked one of the employees who worked at Apple for 30 years. — The history of calligraphy is all you need to know about the principles that drive it. I think you should get a job as a waiter or something until you find something you really love. If you haven’t found it, keep looking, don’t stop.» Jobs was lucky: he knew early on what he wanted to do.

He believed that half the success of an entrepreneur is perseverance. Many give up, unable to overcome difficulties. If you don’t love what you do, if you don’t have a passion, you won’t be able to make a breakthrough: «The only thing that kept me moving forward was that I loved my job.»

Okwu ndị na-agbanwe ihe niile

Bernard Roth, onye isi Stanford School of Design, ewepụtala ụfọdụ iwu asụsụ iji nyere gị aka imezu ebumnuche gị. O zuru ezu iwepụ okwu abụọ n'okwu ahụ.

1. Replace «but» with «and»

How great is the temptation to say: «I want to go to the movies, but I have to work.» What difference would it make if instead you said, “I want to go to the movies and I need to work”?

Using the union «but», we set a task for the brain, and sometimes we come up with an excuse for ourselves. It is quite possible that, trying to get out of the “conflict of our own interests”, we will not do either one or the other, but in general we will do something else.

You can almost always do both — you just need to find a way

When we replace «but» with «and», the brain considers how to fulfill both conditions of the task. For example, we can watch a shorter movie or give part of the work to someone else.

2. Say «I want» instead of «I have to»

Oge ọ bụla ị ga-asị "Achọrọ m" ma ọ bụ "Akwesịrị m," gbanwee usoro ka ọ bụrụ "Achọrọ m." Enwere ihe dị iche? "Mmega ahụ a na-eme ka anyị mara na ihe anyị na-eme n'ezie bụ nhọrọ anyị," ka Roth na-ekwu.

Otu n'ime ụmụ akwụkwọ ya kpọrọ mgbakọ na mwepụ asị mana o kpebiri na ya ga-aga akwụkwọ ọmụmụ iji mechaa nzere masta ya. Mgbe o mechara mmega ahụ a, nwa okorobịa ahụ kwupụtara na ya chọrọ n'ezie ịnọdụ na nkuzi na-adịghị mma n'ihi na njedebe njedebe karịrị nsogbu ahụ.

N'ịghọta iwu ndị a, ị nwere ike ịma aka automatism ma ghọta na nsogbu ọ bụla adịghị esi ike dị ka ọ dị na nlele mbụ.

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